Quote: (05-03-2016 08:10 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:
I agree with Sourcecode. From what I've seen, the common denominator of guys that say "you have to be a male model with professional head shots to get laid online!!!!11" is that they have a boring profile, they don't know how to rapidly eject on girls who are simply there to waste their time, and...weak text game.
What would you say is the biggest sign early that they are there just to waste your time? I'm not sure if this has to do with it, but I always talk about the 5-10% that you actually have a back and forth (your gut tells you they are interested). When you don't have that kind of reciprocity, they either aren't interested (really), have so many matches it's hard to keep attention (over time), or ... both. Again, timing is everything and you'll never know.
As an aside, that Strauss guy pointed out something on an article which had to do with dick pics that I wanted to comment on:
It's our natural disposition as males to get right to it, precisely because we realize that so many girls are on there just to waste (your) time. As a person of efficiency, and male, you will try to cut to the chase. Resist this urge and let it naturally come up over time, or let her bring it up. Just like in other situations, there is natural ASD for girls. Comfort is key. So get the comfort, then start to tiptoe the line. A girl not otherwise against a transition to sex talk will find you creepy if you do it too early, because so many other undisciplined guys are out there with a quick hit approach.