Quote: (03-21-2016 03:33 AM)Zerdame Wrote:
Incredible work Gio,
Thank you.
Welcome to the forum!
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As far as picking up girls in shopping malls..
I have a technique that is very important to my success:
WALKING ALONGSIDE OF GIRLS!!!
I rarely stop girls as they are walking.
I create a situation where they are walking right next to me.
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Here is a recent example:
I was at the mall, I saw a beautiful girl walking..
I quickly positioned myself so that I was about 20 feet ahead of her..
I stopped at the atm machine and watched her as she walked closer and closer to me..
When she got about 5 feet away from me, I stood up tall, strengthened my posture, and started talking loudly and confidently..
I WASN'T TALKING TO ANYONE! I WAS JUST LOOKING AT SOME GUY AS I SAID:
"okay great, thanks for your help, have a good weekend"
As I said this, I started to walk away from the atm and slightly ahead of the girl about 2 steps.
At that point, she had heard my voice, she had become aware of my presence, and she was walking right next to me.
Timing is everything.
After a few steps, I turned my head, pretending to notice her for the first time...
I made an indirect, situational observation:
me: your backpack is open
her: I'm sorry
me: your backpack is totally unzipped
her: oh thats the style of it
me: oh it is? It looks open
her: ya the style of this bag is that the zippers appear unzipped
me: oh
her: ya
me: well its a nice bag, i love good black leather
her: haha ya me too
me: are you coming from a workout?
her: yes I had yoga class
me: yoga is amazing
her: ya i love it
We walked and talked for a few minutes.
me: how long have you lived here in san francisco?
her: only about 2 years
Blah, blah, blah
We talked culture, neighborhoods, restaurants, etc.
I got her number.
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In my opinion, the biggest factor was that I positioned myself ALONGSIDE of her. This made my approach seem serendipitous and non threatening.
The other big factor was the fact that I let her hear my voice BEFORE I opened her. This is a concept that I call "Be the First to Speak" -- thread-27138...#pid513404.
This action allows the girl to hear your voice, sense your vibe, and get to know you a little bit BEFORE you open her.
These are two techniques that have improved my success while approaching girls in public.
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P.S. -- I almost forgot, there is a 3rd technique that I like to use in public situations.. If I can not approach the girl directly, I will sometimes strike up a conversation with someone right next to her.. Again, this allows her to hear my voice, get a sense for my vibe and personality, etc.
I call it the "literally indirect approach" -- thread-25173...#pid476666
Use all 3 techniques to improve the integrity of your public approaches!