Quote: (03-14-2016 08:19 PM)booshala Wrote:
Quote: (03-14-2016 01:30 AM)Zerdame Wrote:
I've only been to the main Chinese cities(Shanghai, Beijing etc) and I was blue pill when I visited them. One thing however I've noticed about East Asian countries is this: the value of your western background actually diminishes as you leave the country's economy center. Meaning your value is the strongest in Tokyo, Shanghai,Seoul and not Aomori, Fuzhou or Ulsan. People always tend to mix up true value and novelty factor. While novelty can be a strong driving force for value, it does not replace value completely. You can probably get a few bangs out of this cities for being something new and fresh but your bangs are directly linked to how little of the world your girls have seen.
If you look at major cities like those I've mentioned above, these are cities where your Western background, English ability etc has a direct push on your value as a man. These are cities that have natives paying thousands for English teachers to teach them what they need in order to clinch that next promotion, that next business deal or that next foreign partner Thus your background as an Asian American or wherever you're from is directly beneficial to your gaming of these girls. While novelty opens 30% of girls interested in you, an increased value in the correct city opens up to almost 80% of the girls who want what you already have.
Your value is determined by your location. Being able to speak Turkish probably wouldn't open much doors for you in China but speaking Chinese certainly would. Similarly, speaking English may be a 'wow' factor to a girl living in a 3rd tier Asian city but since she was brought up in an environment where most of the guys can't speak English but still gets on perfectly fine with their lives(read: her father), she wouldn't be able to see the full extend of your value that can change her life.
From a purely game perspective without consideration on business opportunities and other factors, it makes zero sense to go hunting in a 2nd or 3rd tier city. Unless you live in the first tier city of the country and can speak the native language pretty fluently, your perceived value would be nothing to these girls. What do they stand to get for sleeping with a random visiting foreigner to their 3rd tier city that they probably never see again? You would then be banging all your chances on hoping she would do it for pure novelty sake.
In addition, since this thread is on Asians travelling Asia, our novelty factor is already lower than that of any other races. We don't have much to work with when we can literally blend into the crowd if you're planning to work with novelty alone.
Just something I've learnt along the way in gaming Asian cities. I've had more bangs in all the 1st tier cities than anything beyond each country's economical capital.
Interesting theory... My friends and I are of the opinion that exoticism actually does better in 2nd/3rd tier cities. Like every motherfucker in Seoul can speak English, but once you go to Daegu or Daejeon, I'd think that my perceived value as a fluent English speaker with travel and relative cosmopolitan lifestyle would be demonstrably more high value to local girls.
I know of several Korean American guys who moved from Seoul to Suwon and Gwangju respectively and they both bragged about how the girls they could get there were much hotter... And Suwon is only like 30-40 km's from Seoul proper...
In the case of Suwon, its too close for any significant differences. Its like Yokohama and Tokyo or Subang and Kuala Lumpur. The major selling game point is that all the girls in Suwon are looking to do something in Seoul(work, study etc) but can't afford Seoul's rental rates and have to settle in Suwon and face the daily commute. Thus, these girls actually DO see the value in you since they are essentially Seoulites apart from the fact that they live in Suwon. They probably work in Seoul, study in Seoul, have dates in Seoul with their bfs etc.
As for Daegu or Daejeon, girls may be hotter but I bet the average rejection or flake rate is higher. I've experienced this in almost all Japanese 2nd tier cities. The girls are definitely hotter and more "innocent" as compared to Tokyo girls but on average, I take longer to strike up anything close to the bangs I get in Tokyo. Let's just forget about Osaka, despite being the city with the "realest" Japanese where people are generally more friendly than anywhere else in Japan, I've encountered a dry spell everything I'm in the city but then I digress.
In general, it really matters on your own experiences and if it works for you, why fix what's not broken? But in a general sense, if you're coming to a country for a first time or are just visiting as a tourist, your chances would be much much higher if you just stick to 1st tier cities.