[PapayaTapper]

You seem to be overthinking some of this

(03-14-2016 07:03 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

So I've been banging this late 20s girl I met from online game on the regular for the past couple weeks.

The first mistake is that four times in half as many weeks is too much. I only saw my last girl once a week, maximum. But she has a high sex drive, I've been in a bit of a slump over the winter, and it's been hard to resist the way she throws down.

There's nothing like new ass. Hit that twice a day every day if you can. You (and she) will never be as into it again as you are in the beginning. Just the way it is. Too much pussy?...just like too much money...it don't exist.

The ONLY pussy you are EVER guaranteed is the one you've got your shank in

(03-14-2016 07:03 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Second mistake: I let my "player" frame slip too quickly. I haven't really been treating her like a girlfriend; we haven't been going on real "dates" and out to dinner and movies and shit - just maybe grab some takeout or stop by an ice cream shop to chat for a while and then off to one of our places to bang. She's definitely not comfortable with just straight up "Netflix n chill" without a little of that, I figure.

Unless she's a straight up slut (that was likely sexually molested earlier) most chicks need a little interaction to get the juice flowing. Use this time to game her and keep her mind right... but again I see nothing wrong here.

(03-14-2016 07:03 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

But because she's fairly introverted I've had to carry the weight of the conversations quite a bit, and so of course being the kind of emotional guy I am, from time to time it's turned to thoughts about the future, life philosophy, hopes and dreams, and so on. You know the deal.

If you're making it sound like you're planning your future with her then...yeah...don't. She needs to feel insecure in order to stay attracted

Else nothing wrong with demonstrating to a chick that you have goals and ambitions. In fact it taps in to their "nesting" instinct and programming.

(03-14-2016 07:03 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Third mistake: I texted with her too often.

Yep...This is a big one. Nothing dries up pussies faster than a guy without other options

This actually the best way to get RID of a girl...send her 2-3 needy texts a day and watch how quickly she ghosts on you

(03-14-2016 07:03 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

My reward for this, naturally, is that the other night I get hit up with the "well I like you a lot where is this going" text.

Shit test. Dont answer it. Game on

(03-14-2016 07:03 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Two weeks is definitely too soon for this sort of thing, so I'm wondering how to play it going forward. I recognize that in a way I was sort of asking for it by sending mixed signals, but is dropping that stuff so soon something that's unforgivable, irreversible, and requires nexting, or is it worth trying to reverse course, pull back, and try to keep her in FB-land?

Same as above..... Shit test

(03-14-2016 07:03 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Though I made some mistakes, given what some of our conversations were like I feel she kind of knew the score going in. She talks about other dates she's been on, other guys she's banged. Trying to flip it around on me so soon is unfair (heh) - the ball needs to be in her court, and she's the one who needs to decide whether she's content with being casual and not bring this up, or next me because she wants commitment and I won't give it.

Disrespect shit test. I'd handle it differently depending on whether that was in person or via text her mentioning another dude...but she's trying to "dread game" you...don't fall for that shit

(03-14-2016 07:03 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Lady, I know you got banged out by another dude last week. I'm not signing on to be your boyfriend three days later. You're not hitting him up with the "I like you a lot" shit I guarantee it.

Did she write that to you? "I like you a lot?"

(03-14-2016 07:03 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

I would've seen the first girl more often, but she always claimed to be busy. I recognize in a way that she was actually helping my newbie-ass out though I didn't realize it, and was likely more self-aware about fuckbuddy game than I was at that point.

Again I think you're overthinking it