Little update. I've been using a lot of advice that I got from this forum and I've been very busy with self improvement. A lot of my habits have changed (for example procrastinating). I'm learning to manage my time better to get more stuff done. With reading I almost finished reading Bachelor pad economics and about halfway through 48 laws of power.
For hobbies, I started with the ballroom dancing lessons. The partner I originally was going to meet up with said she didn't want to go anymore, but I signed up anyway because I really wanted to go. Another girl signed up as well so we got assigned to eachother because we both didn't have a dance partner. She's way more boring and way less attractive than the other girl which sucks but better than no partner at all because I'm still learning to ballroom dance. Maybe I should've joined the hiphop classes instead of the ballroom classes because the hiphop group had like 10 cute girls and I would've been the only guy that joined. I'm still learning the piano as well, I want to play in a band someday. I'm not sure what's better, learning ballroom dancing with a boring girl or learning hiphop with cute girls.
I've been very active, I'm going to the gym 3x a week and swimming 2x a week, all to rehab my shoulders to eventually fix my injury so I can start progressing on full speed and start building muscle. Meanwhile thanks to the swimming I'm losing a bit of bodyfat. When my shoulders are healed I'll probably start a martial art as well, am thinking about either MMA or BJJ. I don't know how long it will take before my shoulders are healed though.
Combine this all with school and I barely have any time left. I went/am going to different open days from universities here in the Netherlands and from what I've seen so far I am probably going to one of the ''technical universities'' because they focus more on engineering subjects (I'm interested in civil, mechanical or chemical engineering). The population in these towns are like 75% male and 25% female though, which will not be ideal.
For hobbies, I started with the ballroom dancing lessons. The partner I originally was going to meet up with said she didn't want to go anymore, but I signed up anyway because I really wanted to go. Another girl signed up as well so we got assigned to eachother because we both didn't have a dance partner. She's way more boring and way less attractive than the other girl which sucks but better than no partner at all because I'm still learning to ballroom dance. Maybe I should've joined the hiphop classes instead of the ballroom classes because the hiphop group had like 10 cute girls and I would've been the only guy that joined. I'm still learning the piano as well, I want to play in a band someday. I'm not sure what's better, learning ballroom dancing with a boring girl or learning hiphop with cute girls.
I've been very active, I'm going to the gym 3x a week and swimming 2x a week, all to rehab my shoulders to eventually fix my injury so I can start progressing on full speed and start building muscle. Meanwhile thanks to the swimming I'm losing a bit of bodyfat. When my shoulders are healed I'll probably start a martial art as well, am thinking about either MMA or BJJ. I don't know how long it will take before my shoulders are healed though.
Combine this all with school and I barely have any time left. I went/am going to different open days from universities here in the Netherlands and from what I've seen so far I am probably going to one of the ''technical universities'' because they focus more on engineering subjects (I'm interested in civil, mechanical or chemical engineering). The population in these towns are like 75% male and 25% female though, which will not be ideal.