Just to be clear, I'm not asking for advice on how to fix things with this specific girl. I'm just trying to learn from my mistakes.
Here's what I got so far:
1) It may or may not have been a shit test. In any case, my response to it was bad. I should've either brushed it off, or just let her leave.
2) I may not have built enough comfort during the escalation.
I clearly lost attraction at some point. Just trying to identify what that point was.
Maybe my escalation was awkward or lacked comfort, and even though it looked like she was responding well, she wasn't really liking it. Or maybe I lost attraction when I responded to her "I'm not feeling it". I don't know!
I guess next time I'm on a date I'll try both!
Here's what I got so far:
1) It may or may not have been a shit test. In any case, my response to it was bad. I should've either brushed it off, or just let her leave.
2) I may not have built enough comfort during the escalation.
I clearly lost attraction at some point. Just trying to identify what that point was.
Maybe my escalation was awkward or lacked comfort, and even though it looked like she was responding well, she wasn't really liking it. Or maybe I lost attraction when I responded to her "I'm not feeling it". I don't know!
I guess next time I'm on a date I'll try both!
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