From your replies, it seems that I have to cut back on the humour a little bit for now as first step. Also, I think not laughing too much when expressing humour and not specifically aiming it at her might help. As an aside, I am realizing that smiling lesser when normally interacting with girls can sometimes increase their interest level.
I believe that the thread has become more focussed on the humour part of the 'fun' personality that has been proposed. However, the other aspect that I wanted to bring up is the energy that is brought into this personality. I am seeing guys who bring a lesser amount of energy into the interaction getting more attention. Infact, sometimes a little indifference to the social situation also seems to pique a girl's interest and the next time, she wants to know where he is/what he is doing.
But this seems contrary to what some of the members in the forum propose to newbies ie. to build active conversation, bring high energy, act like the boss etc.
I believe that the thread has become more focussed on the humour part of the 'fun' personality that has been proposed. However, the other aspect that I wanted to bring up is the energy that is brought into this personality. I am seeing guys who bring a lesser amount of energy into the interaction getting more attention. Infact, sometimes a little indifference to the social situation also seems to pique a girl's interest and the next time, she wants to know where he is/what he is doing.
But this seems contrary to what some of the members in the forum propose to newbies ie. to build active conversation, bring high energy, act like the boss etc.