I'm going to give you another point of view - this is coming from a cocky/asshole/arrogant/truthful/sarcastic type of game.
Humor is awesome - it doesn't need to be used sparingly BUT it doesn't need to be a hard sell.
The vibe I give off NATURALLY is easy going, friendly, and funny.
When I've been drinking I get alot more honest/blunt/truthful BUT I present it jokingly and sarcastically.
I used to be a serious asshole, girls would even tell my friends why was I being such a dick. So I changed.
A women can sense if someone is being fake fast, especially at trying hard to joke.
I've always had humor, it's natural to me, it might not be to you, AND THAT'S ALL GOOD.
I found my niche, and I exploited it. You need to find yours - by that I mean what get's a woman's attention. Are you a strong silent type ? A intense man with a few words type ?
You get what I'm trying to get at.
I always use this to remind myself to slow down "Cool, Calm, Collective"
It depends on your energy, your vibe, and personality.
You're still experimenting (I am too) - that's the beauty - we change.
If you have to, create an approach/game log.
Experiment, write down what did and didn't work with chicks on campus - you might start seeing a pattern develop.
Start whittling down what the source is within you, then start exploiting it.
Humor is awesome - it doesn't need to be used sparingly BUT it doesn't need to be a hard sell.
The vibe I give off NATURALLY is easy going, friendly, and funny.
When I've been drinking I get alot more honest/blunt/truthful BUT I present it jokingly and sarcastically.
I used to be a serious asshole, girls would even tell my friends why was I being such a dick. So I changed.
A women can sense if someone is being fake fast, especially at trying hard to joke.
I've always had humor, it's natural to me, it might not be to you, AND THAT'S ALL GOOD.
I found my niche, and I exploited it. You need to find yours - by that I mean what get's a woman's attention. Are you a strong silent type ? A intense man with a few words type ?
You get what I'm trying to get at.
I always use this to remind myself to slow down "Cool, Calm, Collective"
It depends on your energy, your vibe, and personality.
You're still experimenting (I am too) - that's the beauty - we change.
If you have to, create an approach/game log.
Experiment, write down what did and didn't work with chicks on campus - you might start seeing a pattern develop.
Start whittling down what the source is within you, then start exploiting it.