That "whoever cares less has all the power" line comes from emotional insecurity.
If you are emotionally secure you can love your girl and also be willing to let her go if necessary.
Granted it might not always be easy and you might suffer some heartbreak, however that is life...C'est la via...
you get back up and do it again...
I think of relationships like a forest...they can be strong and stand for decades...however if there is a raging fire
then you have to be willing to let the forest burn so it can grow again. That is called having emotional resiliency.
Apart from an LTR imploding though, every relationship has to fit your individual needs. It's less about power and control
and more about harmony. Having an iron will only works if the other person is willing to tolerate you...and usually there's
a breaking point.
The same is true if you are indecisive or constantly seeking approval...there's only so much a woman can usually take
before your relationship becomes dsyfunctional and breaks down.
These are extremes though...keeping your relationship on track takes a sure and steady hand that you have to get
from practice and making mistakes.
If you are emotionally secure you can love your girl and also be willing to let her go if necessary.
Granted it might not always be easy and you might suffer some heartbreak, however that is life...C'est la via...
you get back up and do it again...
I think of relationships like a forest...they can be strong and stand for decades...however if there is a raging fire
then you have to be willing to let the forest burn so it can grow again. That is called having emotional resiliency.
Apart from an LTR imploding though, every relationship has to fit your individual needs. It's less about power and control
and more about harmony. Having an iron will only works if the other person is willing to tolerate you...and usually there's
a breaking point.
The same is true if you are indecisive or constantly seeking approval...there's only so much a woman can usually take
before your relationship becomes dsyfunctional and breaks down.
These are extremes though...keeping your relationship on track takes a sure and steady hand that you have to get
from practice and making mistakes.