1) Stop boiling game down to 1 point.
Game is complex because women are complex and life is complex.
Study one piece at a time, and bring it into your game.
Often times you learn one thing, and it smooths out other parts of the interaction. But never boil it down, you miss the nuance and intentions.
2) Who cares less about the relationship has the power in the relationship.
This is the norm for relationships, because most relationships are dysfunctional.
The typical relationship is
- man meets woman.
- Man tries very hard to please woman.
- Woman allows herself to be pleased
- then she keeps asking for more, or gets more and more.
- The man wants to give, likes to give, and keeps giving.
- The woman grows contempt for the man.
She doesn't care about him after a while, and wants someone that excites her. For whatever reason she doesn't end the relationship, but she's in charge because whatever she wants, she gets.
She cares less and has the power. That power is twofold, she can get the man to do what she wants, she also has the power to crush him emotionally by withdrawing or being indifferent. On his side, it's all give and no take.
Sometimes this reverses itself, where a man doesn't give a damn about the woman, but the woman gives her all to keep him. She does this out of desperation, not desire.
A post game/red pill relationship should not be abusive.
The woman not only wants to please the man, not only pleases the man, but she DERIVES HER OWN HAPPINESS FROM PLEASING HER MAN. She loves making him happy, like parents giving toys to children on Christmas. She keeps him happy, that's why he stays with her.
He doesn't stay with a chick because he has no options, because he's afraid of being alone, but because he likes how he is treated.
And if the King loves and honors his queen, he cares for her and takes care of her as well. He's not trying to make her feel anxious all the time.
You don't want to be the guy with "one foot out the door" all the time.
It's cool when you're young, but if you have a steady chick (or steady chicks), you want to be mentally in a place where "I know where my shoes are if I need to walk". But not always looking at the front door.
This isn't something that happens typically, because in an LTR situation, you can't depend on her socialization, upbringing, culture, society, religion...you have to teach her how to love you, teach her how to handle issues and problems.
Teaching your LTR is not newb territory.
The game is never over for the player.
WIA
Game is complex because women are complex and life is complex.
Study one piece at a time, and bring it into your game.
Often times you learn one thing, and it smooths out other parts of the interaction. But never boil it down, you miss the nuance and intentions.
2) Who cares less about the relationship has the power in the relationship.
This is the norm for relationships, because most relationships are dysfunctional.
The typical relationship is
- man meets woman.
- Man tries very hard to please woman.
- Woman allows herself to be pleased
- then she keeps asking for more, or gets more and more.
- The man wants to give, likes to give, and keeps giving.
- The woman grows contempt for the man.
She doesn't care about him after a while, and wants someone that excites her. For whatever reason she doesn't end the relationship, but she's in charge because whatever she wants, she gets.
She cares less and has the power. That power is twofold, she can get the man to do what she wants, she also has the power to crush him emotionally by withdrawing or being indifferent. On his side, it's all give and no take.
Sometimes this reverses itself, where a man doesn't give a damn about the woman, but the woman gives her all to keep him. She does this out of desperation, not desire.
A post game/red pill relationship should not be abusive.
The woman not only wants to please the man, not only pleases the man, but she DERIVES HER OWN HAPPINESS FROM PLEASING HER MAN. She loves making him happy, like parents giving toys to children on Christmas. She keeps him happy, that's why he stays with her.
He doesn't stay with a chick because he has no options, because he's afraid of being alone, but because he likes how he is treated.
And if the King loves and honors his queen, he cares for her and takes care of her as well. He's not trying to make her feel anxious all the time.
You don't want to be the guy with "one foot out the door" all the time.
It's cool when you're young, but if you have a steady chick (or steady chicks), you want to be mentally in a place where "I know where my shoes are if I need to walk". But not always looking at the front door.
This isn't something that happens typically, because in an LTR situation, you can't depend on her socialization, upbringing, culture, society, religion...you have to teach her how to love you, teach her how to handle issues and problems.
Teaching your LTR is not newb territory.
The game is never over for the player.
WIA