[birthday cat]

I'm not sure who you are saying is hamsterbating. If you are saying I am then I suggest reading that book I wrote again because I think we are in agreement. If you are saying that fucksong is then I understand you but I'm just suggesting that we cut him some slack. I agree that he is wrong but it is a confusing topic due to all the different definitions of FBs, dating, and relationships and the blackdragon blog is easily believable until you really dig into it and realize the guy doesn't have any experience with his OLTR concept and his MLTR concept is poorly defined.