Quote: (01-29-2016 03:17 AM)Roosh Wrote:
Sounds to me like those white knights saved your ass from doing something with your female co-workers that could have cost you dearly down the line.
It seems you just took the red pill and are angry with the behaviors of people who are blue pill. Stay a while, things will improve.
I concur.
Quote: (01-29-2016 10:28 AM)wi30 Wrote:
You should have told the white knights to "go home".
One of the white knights is a project/group leader at work.
Quote: (01-29-2016 11:37 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Mouth breathing red pill logic at its finest.
These so called white knights brought the women to the party,
No they didn't. The girls ditched them; they pathetically tagged along to come to our party. We only texted the girls, not the those guys.
Quote: (01-29-2016 11:37 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
and then were able to tell the "cool guys"'what to do. When the cool guys shirked their duties, the good guys took the women away.
I could be wrong, but i don't see it that away. They dropped a nuclear cockblock of all cockblock: reporting everybody at the party for drinking and smoking weed at Company's sponsored accommodations.
Let me draw on your wisdom here: How would you have handled that?
What could you have said or done to neutralize that?
Befriending all of them? Done that several times at lunch tables and before we even went to the Hotel.
Creating an atmosphere where everybody wants to have fun? We did that.
Welcoming them to the party and telling them to come in and grab a beer or Patron shots or etc?. We did that.
Talking to the whole group, we did. Myself, E., K., D., A. especially did that.
WestIndianArchie, i understand what you are saying, i am just trying to see what i could have done differently to neutralize their hostile feelings of "stealing their [departmental]women" away from them.
Whiteknights #1, his name is L. He is the one that raised a lot of noise. L. talked to K.(one of my guys) for about 20 mins about a girl they both chased that L desperately wanted to wife up; but K ended up pumping and dumping. L. is still in love with this girl to this day. D.(one of my guys) joined in the conversation and talked to L. about moving on. It was a long ass conversation.
WIA, i honestly don't know what anybody else could have done to neutralize L. hurt feelings; my educated guess is that L. doesn't want another repeat of somebody stealing another girl away from him especially K. So he decided to blow up the party.
Whiteknights #2 name is G. He is most likely a virgin. He never even tries to deny or insult us back, whenever we tease him about it. He is always asking for relationship advice from everybody about girls he almost kissed or something. He is the one that told me his feelings are hurt on behalf of the girls(even though the girls feelings are not hurt.)
Whiteknights #3. name is V. He is the one that doesn't want us talking about any of the girls asses because they are his friends. He is the one that shovel the snow off 3 different girls' car to impress them all. He likes calling people creepy and bullshitter, etc when they are talking to girls, generally aggressive cockblocker. There was this time that we were done for the day and heading home; one of the girls got a bag of chips from the vending machine and she asked V. to hold it for her while she eats out of it one by one by one. V. complied and ended up holding it. This is the mentality of the person you are dealing with. I have started slowly distancing myself from him, because he could just easily go to the management team and relay all our "bathroom talk about girls" to them. Under the pretense of serving the company's best interest. These things have to be handled delicately, otherwise, they will blow up in your face.
Whiteknights #4. name is S. He is the one that decided to shovel the snow off a girls car, without the girls knowledge, in the hope that the girl will be pleasantly surprised and gave up her pussy. S. straight-up tell me that he doesn't want any of us around those girls so they can have them for themselves. One thing i am proud of is that, my group didn't pathetically chase after those girls. We simply kept having fun.
WIA, I don't know what our group could have done differently.
Quote: (01-29-2016 11:37 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
And rather than run game on the group, spout off some gym locker room "wisdom". Basically making yourself a pariah to the people you work with.
GAME, have some.
Pariah? Nobody is pariah about anything. As a group we decided to keep our distance from those four faggots and maintain some distance from those girls while spending more time with other girls. That make a lot of sense to me.
The girls are scared because the issue has reached management, so they too will want to keep a distance from us. It just makes sense to be friendly to them, keep a little bit of distance, while socializing more with other girls.
On the issue of running game on the group as a whole, we tried that. Jealousy can be a bitch. The best thing is to maintain a cool distance from those four white knights.
Quote: (01-29-2016 11:37 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Part of having game is understanding the social dynamics of a situation. Openly using illegal drugs at a work function was not the move. Spitting "knowledge" because you couldn't read the tea leaves ...
Naw B.
WIA
The weed was a mistake on that front. Hindsight is 20/20. The funny thing is that all those people, including those 4 whiteknights all admitted to smoking weed and are down for it. Everybody at our party was down with smoking weed. We've sat together several times at the lunch tables talking and joking, etc. But somehow, those 4 white knights suddenly flipped a switch and turn into straight-edge kids at the party.
Eirykr was right with this quote:
Quote: (01-28-2016 08:30 PM)Eirykr Wrote:
You think corporate cut-throat behavior ends at the lunch table?
It seems to me that they saw an opportunity and exploited for their own advantage. Bitch made, but machiavellian.
Thanks to everybody for their advice.