Is it a Bad Move for a Married Man to Allow Another Man to Stay in His Home?
12-28-2015, 04:54 AM
A friend of mine invited me up to stay at his uncle's cabin out in the woods. We get there, and it's not some shanty shack, but a beautiful, luxurious mountain cabin situated well-within the tree line. This guy, my buddy's uncle, turns out to be the coolest fucker I've ever met. He starts telling us stories of his time in a biker gang, his propensity towards women, and hilarious stories of his wilder years.
At one point he even told me why he keeps pictures of him and his female friends around the house..."It's how you keep your woman in line." This guy!
Back to the main point, I'm a bit on the lean side, 5'11", good looking, etc. etc., but in no way as badass as my friend's uncle. He's a living legend in my mind, and I almost felt paralyzed by how fun and awesome the vibe at that house was. Everyone was laughing a good 15% of the time. The fact that he could out drink me by a factor of 7 in his 50's furthers my point.
Here's the kicker. Now, I have a lot of respect for this man. I consider him an uncle. The entire time there was a twinge of attracting between his lady and me. Truth be told, she was attractive and you could tell she was probably the life of the party more than a few times. Entire time though, always had that feeling. It was confirmed after my buddy and I left for the flatlands that she "Had the Asian fever!" and thought I was "So Respectful!" Lol
In my mind, she's great. They're both great.
It just baffles me that a guy like me, good "baseline," if you will could really hold a candle to such a legendary person. I didn't talk much, didn't lead much, and certainly wouldn't consider spitting any kind of game in that situation. This guy's uncle is the quintessential alpha of the working class IMO, I'm just a city guy.
In short, yeah you gotta command a lot of respect to pull something like that off, I feel. It's a class move, definitely looks good, and if you know yourself and who you're dealing with, I'm sure you'll make a wise-enough decision as to what's good or not.
Also, if you live in the mountains, the only way you're gonna get your own strange is if you ride motorcycles, big pick ups, or ATVs.
At one point he even told me why he keeps pictures of him and his female friends around the house..."It's how you keep your woman in line." This guy!
Back to the main point, I'm a bit on the lean side, 5'11", good looking, etc. etc., but in no way as badass as my friend's uncle. He's a living legend in my mind, and I almost felt paralyzed by how fun and awesome the vibe at that house was. Everyone was laughing a good 15% of the time. The fact that he could out drink me by a factor of 7 in his 50's furthers my point.
Here's the kicker. Now, I have a lot of respect for this man. I consider him an uncle. The entire time there was a twinge of attracting between his lady and me. Truth be told, she was attractive and you could tell she was probably the life of the party more than a few times. Entire time though, always had that feeling. It was confirmed after my buddy and I left for the flatlands that she "Had the Asian fever!" and thought I was "So Respectful!" Lol
In my mind, she's great. They're both great.
It just baffles me that a guy like me, good "baseline," if you will could really hold a candle to such a legendary person. I didn't talk much, didn't lead much, and certainly wouldn't consider spitting any kind of game in that situation. This guy's uncle is the quintessential alpha of the working class IMO, I'm just a city guy.
In short, yeah you gotta command a lot of respect to pull something like that off, I feel. It's a class move, definitely looks good, and if you know yourself and who you're dealing with, I'm sure you'll make a wise-enough decision as to what's good or not.
Also, if you live in the mountains, the only way you're gonna get your own strange is if you ride motorcycles, big pick ups, or ATVs.
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