[Prof. Ligate]

First of all... not a silly question - everyone who rolls solo encounters this. The fact that you are putting yourself out there and reaching these kind of sticking points should be seen as a success in of itself. So good work.

What to do:

Pairs are obviously going to be tougher to game rolling solo than with a cool wingman who is on your level - but please... don't try and find a wingman in the club. You have no idea what kind of person they are and could/ probably will cockblock you. Game is hard enough without bringing another variable like some random dude you just met into the scene.

The great thing is with pairs is that they are straight up coming out to talk to guys. They don't have the stigma of a massive social group's judgment attached to giving numbers out or hooking up with a guy like a larger group - and although isolation from larger groups can be easier, pairs shouldn't be ignored as an approach for guys rolling solo.

What I personally like to do with pairs (once some physicality and attraction has been achieved) is bounce them to the dancefloor. Dancefloors typically are run amok by thirsty guys who will grind up on any girl. Pick one of the girls, dance for a bit.. and - once the other girl has caught the attention of another guy - isolate. If the guys are as lame as you mention - venue change.

Countless times I've done this where girls will actually create the isolation themselves (usually for a cigarette outside).

Hope it works out for you mate.