Quote: (12-06-2015 05:23 AM)Spider Wrote:
Girls in Poland are sensitive and kind. You have to approach them with a completely different mentality then you would in the west.
I've been living in Krakow for 3 months and haven't once met a girl who appreciates cocky western game.
Instead I've dated several virgins whose attraction for me has increased when I act like an old school gentleman (hold doors for them, take them on romantic dates).
I've tried being cocky and making fun of some of these Polish chicks like I do back in New York and it results in me getting looked at like I have 3 heads...
In America I'll go on a drinks date and if I don't get the 1st date lay I'll invite them over a few nights later to 'watch a movie and share a glass of wine.'
In Poland it hasn't worked like that. I've taken my girls here on all sorts of different dates, from dinner to museums/art galleries to haunted houses and even to a fucking shooting range where I shot fully auto weapons with my main girl.
It took me about 15 dates to sleep with a virgin who is planning to apply for a visa and get a weekend job to earn enough cash to come visit me in New York in a few months.
It's taken me 2 or 3 dates to sleep with other Polish girls. And another I'm working on I'm at 6 dates with but I think she's ready...
I wouldn't devote that kind of energy to girls in New York because it wouldn't be necessary, but here in Poland in order to have sex with these girls building attraction isn't everything, I've had to build a 'love connection,' or at least something close to it.
In Roosh's Bang Poland, he mentions game here being about simply showing up and being a nice guy.
I dropped the cocky bullshit that gets me laid with tremendous results in the west, and instead adopted some beta techniques and just being a nice (and seemingly caring) guy.
Its worked wonders.
This sounds wonderful. I would love to not have to treat a girl like trash to like me.