Quote: (11-29-2015 05:28 PM)HankMoody Wrote:
10. 80/20 is the golden ratio. If you want to maintain an LTR, you can't be a jerkboy all the time (well, you can, but eventually they get tired of it and leave). If you are serious about maintaining an LTR, I've found that being a jerkboy 80% of the time and "nice" 20% of the time is perfect. Be a total dickbag during the day, then at night cuddle with her after she gives you a blowjob. Ignore her for a week, and then randomly take her out for dinner.
Inconsistency of affection creates intrigue, hope, and attraction. If you want to maintain an LTR, be a jerk most of the time, and then nice a little bit of the time.
This!
I used to feel bad about pissing her off frequently, then learned to quiet those beta boy urges. I frequently "turn the dick up to 11" right at bedtime. Wake up to her sucking my dick with such enthusiasm and then getting lovey-dovey texts all day at work about what she's going to do to me when I get home.