[PapayaTapper]

(10-06-2015 02:27 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  

Hey guys, had a question in a previous thread but realized I asked too many questions in there, so it might be better to start a new thread for each one. So here goes the question..

If I chat up a girl in a pub at the bar, how do I continue once the conversation part is petering out after 15/20 mins? Obviously, escalating in front of the bar staff is out of the question..

Is going somewhere else such as a club where there are more distractions better? Problem is clubs here are a hit or miss, so if it's the latter, would it be too soon to suggest going to one of our places?

If your sensing she's into you then just suggest "Hey let's go to my place and listen to some music, watch a movie, look at my pictures from my trip to Bali,etc"...whatever is appropriate for your situation.

If I sense she's into it but not a hardcore slut just looking for a dick (those slut tells are already in plenty of other threads) then I usually add something like..."But don't get any funny ideas, you aren't getting me into bed"...essentially defusing that concern by what I like to call " humorous inoculation" .

If it's someone you just met but you can't get her to leave with you then you should bounce yourself quickly, before things get boring or awkward. This will preserve the "mysterious Mr Tingles" emotional image you've established in her mind. Keep that currency intact and you at least have the chance to cash it in at the pussy window later.

Loud, busy venues are a generally bad place to bounce to IMO. Unless you have connections there such as bypassing the line getting in, or know the DJ, bartender etc,...somewhere where she can see you as "cool/ sexy/ interesting". Just another chump in a club full of chumps?...NEVER

In all cases, as GlobalMan writes above, use the venue changes to keep things interesting, and build comfort/rapport. Alcohol helps those emotions build through lowered inhibitions

You should be trying to end up as close to the bang location (your place, her place, hotel) with your last stop. Think of the whole seduction process as a funnel where your objective is to ideally have her at her most willing ("into it") as close to coming out of that funnel and into the bucket (bang location) as possible.