I'm starting to focus my gaming on certain areas of my city; University towns in particular. Inevitably, I end up seeing girls I've previously approached/dated/banged. While many of us are familiar with the flaking epidemic, I'm curious to know how many of you deal with bumping into girls that have previously flaked or gone cold on you.
My general stance on this would be to completely ignore and disregard girls that have flaked on me, but a friend suggested I relax a little more and not be so militant in my reaction to being 'rejected'. For example, if I see a previous flake in a bar, I'll ignore her, unless it's really obvious I'm trying to avoid her, then I'll just act cool and say hey.
In some situations, I know the opportunity to reignite things with a flake may present itself, but I refuse to try again out of pride.
What do you guys think?
My general stance on this would be to completely ignore and disregard girls that have flaked on me, but a friend suggested I relax a little more and not be so militant in my reaction to being 'rejected'. For example, if I see a previous flake in a bar, I'll ignore her, unless it's really obvious I'm trying to avoid her, then I'll just act cool and say hey.
In some situations, I know the opportunity to reignite things with a flake may present itself, but I refuse to try again out of pride.
What do you guys think?