Quote: (11-11-2015 12:36 AM)xxMarco Wrote:
I've actually done this and its worked against me. Won't do it again. First the girl is on her turf, she feels like hot shit if you stop by. She might even try to show off to her coworkers about this guy who came to "say hi". Not a good look. Second, you'll seem desperate, there is no excuse as to why you stopped by, "you were in the area" doesn't really cut it. Maybe if its a bar but if you live in a city there's other bars with other girls. She'll know she has you. Third, she'll put you in the orbiter or in the regular customer zone which you don't ever want to be in if you're actually trying to fuck.
This is the correct answer. I've had girls who have worked in retail and they are dying for you to come and see them to relieve some of the boredom, and to show off how popular they are to their co-workers.
We need a bit more context before knowing their true motivations though OP. Did they give you a solid phone number or kiss you before saying this, or was it a way of blowing you off and not having to give you their contact information?