Quote: (11-10-2015 07:05 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:
You should be touching her nonstop from the moment you meet her.
Mostly moving her about.
I do agree though that if this is done with any hint of a lack of confidence it will backfire.
"Just grab that bitch" is my attitude.
Depends entirely on the setting, the situation and your personality in my opinion. If in a bar or a club, sure, that's probably a good baseline attitude.
If it's a more relaxed daytime or evening dinner for a walk, a couple of drinks, whatever, and maybe even some good conversation (I tend to end up on dates with mostly well educated and reasonably or sometimes very smart girls - not always a good thing for sure), trying to constantly attempt to be in a position to "casually" or not so casually touch her will probably backfire for a whole lot of men in many situations (I absolutely feel like I overdid it on "kino" during many dates, and so evidently did most of the girls, when I was new to dating and semi-mechanically trying to test out all the things I had been reading about).
Even with confidence and practice consistent touching throughout some types of dates will just feel out of place for those situations.
I think a daygamer like Krauser has said - though it was quite a while ago, don't know if his methods have changed - that he uses very little kino at all, during initial meets as well as typical dates, until (paraphrasing) the girls are at his place and ready to fuck.
Personally on a first date (haven't got a first date bang yet here in Bulgaria, seems like most girls hold out for second or third) I stick to occasional light casual or leading touches during dates, escalating if things go well to eg. asking them to give me their hand (along with some silly verbal teasing or irrelevant reason for it - talking is what I do best, and mostly without much thought) and then some more intimate touching and eventually kissing and some very light making out near the end if things go well.