[OGNorCal707]

I think dude should've bailed on their 3rd meet up when she brought that other beta orbiter with her to the bar, that's some disrespectful shit, she knows that you like her and are seeing it as a date. There's no excuse for that shit, I would've ejected immediately, sounds like she's friend-zoning you or qualifying you as some kind of beta that she can fuck if she wants, but blackburn just as easily. A lot of chicks nowadays are flipping the script and setting up "soft harems" of fuck buddy guys that she will bang, I hear and see this happening to guys I know, usually she'll have one main dude who's the most "alpha" (however that description applies), and then a fleet of more beta orbiters that she may throw scraps to occasionally.