Quote: (10-27-2011 01:30 AM)soup Wrote:
Most 'sexual dysfunctions' are psychologically based. In general they are caused by anxiety.
This book goes into depth on that: http://books.google.com/books/about/Resu...hLMKk9R54C
I'd try to listen to your dick. If you're cumming 'pre-maturely', it might be a matter of your subconscious self not wanting to be with that chick. If you really wanted to be with that girl, you would on all levels (conscious and subconscious)*. This is why I hate the phrase 'pre-mature ejaculation'- it makes the whole thing seem like you are at fault. That's bullshit. There's meaning behind your actions, even if you aren't aware of them, and there's probably a good reason why you're dick wants to cum so fast.
I always figured the opposite of this - if you were busting a nut in 3 pumps it was natures way of saying "you should have babies w/this chick." thats why you would be much more inclined to blow a fast wad w/a hot chick then a fatty. if you aren't shooting quickly your body is telling you "no matter what you do i'm not letting this bitch be the mother of our child."