Quote: (08-31-2015 12:48 AM)Saladin Wrote:
I think a lot of guys use the "introvert" thing as an excuse.
The whole point of going and doing things like nightgame(where you're doing 10-30 approaches) a night is you're training yourself to be able to be in that environment and make it work. The more you expose yourself the more you're better at getting into a social mood. Especially without alcohol. It's a damn good skillset to be able to approach and pull attractive women from cold approach when you're sober and like any skillset it requires a fuckton of work and its not pleasant at many times.
Of course you'll need to go home and recharge at certain times. And yes, on the longer term you can tailor your strategy to you. But on the short term I think every guy who wants to handle the whole "game" thing needs to go out and do a shitton of approaches. You're essentially rewiring your brain.
Great advice and I fully agree. I think this gets more to the heart of the introvert problem more than anything else. It's basically suck it up and put your balls on the line.
For me, the single biggest factor is getting a good night sleep. It's something I've struggled with my whole life and is probably the real cause of my introversion. Feeling like shit because of lack of sleep makes talking to anyone, let alone strangers, pretty unappealing.