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(08-30-2015 09:08 AM)krazyhorze Wrote:  

I have this girl I'm perusing who a week ago told me she is not ready to date me because she is dating someone else and doesn't want to ruin our professional relationship. I agreed and amplified. Every chance I get I DHV by demonstrating leadership, and other masculine traits, i flirt with her and make my intentions known. Her response to what she sees and notices of me is, "you are amazing, you are so cool, you are an inspirational person etc.," However, when I make the invitation for her to come over to my place for dinner she ignores my invitations or says she is busy. She always responds to my communication right away, will send me text after text until I respond to her and will meet me in public but I can't seem to isolate her. Is it possible to be friend zoned even though she believes one has tremendous high value?

Always judge a girl by her actions, not her words. Based on what you've written, it seems as if you are putting her in an uncomfortable situation being coworkers. My take is that she's not that into you, but doesn't want to be too blunt about it for fear of hurting her professional life, hence the "I don't want to ruin our professional relationship." Also, the ignoring your invitations and always being "busy" are clear signs she's not that interested.

Your value may be high, but based on how she's acting it seems like it's not enough to her and/or she's satisfied with her current partner.

Edit: You say you flirt with her and make your intentions known, yet she does nothing; it really seems like she is happy to receive your attention, but not willing to take action.