Quote: (10-24-2011 10:54 AM)Caligula Wrote:I just don't get it. I really don't. Either guys are not well traveled or they are lacking in some other area to believe that you HAVE to spend lots of money, or broadcast to the bitch that you have a lot of money in order to get laid from her. So, is it the consensus here that once she's hot, you have to show and prove that you have money? If this were true, how do you explain some of the sloppiest, not very well groomed men, fucking some of the baddest bitches in Colombia, Brazil, Argentina, etc. I don't mean hanging out as friends, I mean fucking.
Quote: (10-24-2011 10:29 AM)Pilgrim37 Wrote:
Being successful in certain industries is going to give you more access to lots of beautiful women as well....fashion,magazines,clothes,photography,acting .....all professions beautiful women flock towards to make the most of their natural gifts.
Very true. I know plenty of broke guys in glamour industries who regularly slam insanely hot women. They work and party around models all the time. They have access and they make use of it.
I also know wealthy guys (tens of millions near liquid) who barely get laid. I know one self made guy who is worth $100M+ - his favourite pastime is playing World of Warcraft. When he first got rich he literally took years out of his life to play. These guys are not interested in the playboy life and they don't do anything to parlay their money into bangs.
Money alone isn't a charm. Access and an attractive lifestyle are. Money can buy you both but it doesn't lead to them automatically.
Access is the key and you can gain access by other means than money - even if money means you have to work less for it.
Guys, really and truly if you went to these places, and spent a lot of money just to wine and dine a real hot bitch, ( just because she's hot), you will probably swallow your drink and glass, whole, when the guy who does not have anything near your worth, is fondling and kissing the baddest bitch right in the middle of the street. You see this on the metro every living fucking day in these countries. You will be popular alright, but not for the reasons you believe.
A lot of this, boils down to where you are in this world, and what kind of women you like dating. How many of us go to Nice, or St. Tropez to fuck high class women who are used to a Saudi prince dropping serious coin on a yacht to fuck? That would be your competition if you really want to talk about using money to gain access to seriously hot women! There is no need to compete, unless your ego needs to be inflated whenever you take a hot bitch out. Everything is relative to where you are, and what you are surrounding by. I would love to be her "advisor" in one of these countries when one of you start spending wads of cash on these simpletons who look pretty.
Spending tons of cash on women who are not used to that kind of money, or are used to getting that kind of money from men, would be totally misplaced in the majority of other places in the world that have hot bitches. I can assure you will still be able to pull some real hot bitches regardless of how much cash you want to flash.My point is , it is useless to think that because you're spending a lot of money on a hot chick, she wont fuck the next guy who has nothing close to the money you have. You, my friend, are creating some of the nastiest fucking monsters on the planet. This should be a sin.