There's this girl whom I met while traveling a few months ago. (We made out before I left.)
Now, she's come to visit me for 10 days. My buddies said that I needed to wine & dine her to get her in the sack (I usually never pay because I don't want to give them power, but they said since she paid to fly to visit me I should). So the first 3 days were fine, paid for everything and indeed I did bang her twice. Last night she gets all cold on me and says she doesn't want anything and "thought she was visiting me as a friend". I still have 7 days with her though!
I don't want to spend 7 days with an ice queen - besides she's not even a fun person to hang out with! Obviously I can't kick her out and admittedly it was a dumb idea to invite someone if I didn't enjoy her company that much to begin with.
What do I do? Ignore her? Try again tonight? Act like nothings wrong. Stop paying for stuff? I haven't seen her today coz I had to leave early for work - I was planning to tell her that I'm busy all day and that she should just do her own thing today. What do you think?
Desperate for help!
Now, she's come to visit me for 10 days. My buddies said that I needed to wine & dine her to get her in the sack (I usually never pay because I don't want to give them power, but they said since she paid to fly to visit me I should). So the first 3 days were fine, paid for everything and indeed I did bang her twice. Last night she gets all cold on me and says she doesn't want anything and "thought she was visiting me as a friend". I still have 7 days with her though!
I don't want to spend 7 days with an ice queen - besides she's not even a fun person to hang out with! Obviously I can't kick her out and admittedly it was a dumb idea to invite someone if I didn't enjoy her company that much to begin with.
What do I do? Ignore her? Try again tonight? Act like nothings wrong. Stop paying for stuff? I haven't seen her today coz I had to leave early for work - I was planning to tell her that I'm busy all day and that she should just do her own thing today. What do you think?
Desperate for help!