That's a mistake I did last Thursday when intended to bed a tourist. Read about it here and how it panned out. I learnt my lesson and one of the reasons I posted it was so you and others in similar situation could do better. That's what this forum is for and it is in the same newbie section, just a few posts down the same page.
My conclusion was as follows:
1. Escalate until you have sex with the girl, unless she clearly indicates it is a no-go. Use your judgement, her resistance should take more than an hour, I think.
2. If 1. cannot be achieved, be courteous but firm and make her leave - call her a cab.
There's this middle ground where you could think, there's an option for early morning sex, but I think it's not that likely - you're both sober and it will feel awkward. As you can see, in my case it was futile.
You can be a nice guy, and let her sleep over. But as the saying goes, nice guys finish last. Don't be that guy.
My conclusion was as follows:
1. Escalate until you have sex with the girl, unless she clearly indicates it is a no-go. Use your judgement, her resistance should take more than an hour, I think.
2. If 1. cannot be achieved, be courteous but firm and make her leave - call her a cab.
There's this middle ground where you could think, there's an option for early morning sex, but I think it's not that likely - you're both sober and it will feel awkward. As you can see, in my case it was futile.
You can be a nice guy, and let her sleep over. But as the saying goes, nice guys finish last. Don't be that guy.
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