Quote: (08-02-2015 02:18 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:
I think it's also largely dependent on the culture you're dealing with.
I think it depends on the culture you're dealing with and you as an individual. I wish I had the ability to walk away from things as efficiently as jariel describes but I don't. If I like a girl and she has treated me well then I know I'll feel guilty by ending things poorly. Perhaps this is a weakness and something I need to improve but I've dealt with crazy cold-hearted bitches and read so many stories about crazy cold-hearted bitches that I feel like I have an obligation to end things well with a girl who has treated me well. This isn't advice as much as it is a description of what I would do and I would like to know if the more experienced guys on this forum would consider this a weakness.
Quote: (08-02-2015 06:10 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:
I really adore women, and if it all possible, I always want to leave them better than I found them.
Heartiste has a post about leaving them better than you found them and he doesn't think it is likely. I usually don't disagree with Heartiste but I think it is possible to do this especially when it is a short fling that you both know won't last.
Quote: (08-01-2015 11:27 PM)Dantes Wrote:
Don't feel badly, you don't owe this girl anything.
You only knew her three days.
This is not a relationship.
She will have all the closure she needs when she is banging some other tourist shortly.
If you are on one of the islands that I think you are on then I think this is guaranteed. A lot of partying going on down there every night and the local girls that go there are there for a reason.