Might have been better to message to meetup, but mentioning you're going soon. Even better is she knows a bit in advance. This is the best way to send off a girl.
I don't agree with ignoring emotions. Our emotions are ultimately there to serve a purpose, at the very least to force us to thoroughly contemplate the virtue of our plans and actions.
Also the suggestion of ending it by just never messaging again, isn't a particularly pleasant route. What it says to her is "you weren't even worth saying goodbye to", and what it says to you about yourself is "sex and relationships are as trivial as drinking a can of coke and tossing it in the bin". Not good for the soul, so to speak.
I don't agree with ignoring emotions. Our emotions are ultimately there to serve a purpose, at the very least to force us to thoroughly contemplate the virtue of our plans and actions.
Also the suggestion of ending it by just never messaging again, isn't a particularly pleasant route. What it says to her is "you weren't even worth saying goodbye to", and what it says to you about yourself is "sex and relationships are as trivial as drinking a can of coke and tossing it in the bin". Not good for the soul, so to speak.