[OregonToSoCal]

I prefer night dates so I can escalate like a mofo but afternoon coffee dates are great if you're using a two date model. My suggestions on the coffee dates are keep it light and fun,have her talk 70%+ sit side by side so you can touch her a lot, keep them to around an hour (have somewhere you need to be) and DON'T kiss her. You want to ramp the sexual tension thru the roof and give her a taste of what's to come. Then a few days later go for the night drink date or possible zero date bang at your place. Make her dinner, drinks etc.