Why do guys still believe "ugly" = "no girls"?
I've seen BUSTED DUDES with HOTTIES in every country I've been to, including highly developed first world places.
OP talking about asian girls not being into ugly guys... haha. Take a peek into some of the hi-so social circles and your head will explode. POWER is what they gravitate to. Power does not equal symmetrical features or square, jaw, lol.
Looks (as in, facial appearance, height) are one fragile form of value. Looks alone will get you second-rate girls who want the validation of "getting a hot guy" and that's it.
More durable forms of value:
Social dominance.
Absolute charm.
Rock solid self-confidence.
Highly sexualised character.
"Alpha-ness": leading, escalating, handling tests, firm boundaries.
Dancing ability.
Powerful Physique (many different forms - can be wiry, athletic, thick, muscular, etc... just has to look like you're a "force of nature", not a fat or sick slob)
Highly well connected.
Intimidating, makes other guys react.
Life and soul of the party.
An "ugly" guy scoring high on a few of these will get what he wants.
Girls love POWERFUL guys, if you're ugly they will think you're "cute" or "look interesting" if you are also powerful in some dimension.
Count money as a another fragile one too, that will only get you second-rate girls chasing $$$ or lifestyle upgrades if you rely on it and nothing else. Although it's often correlated with forms of power, so it's a useful proxy.
I've seen BUSTED DUDES with HOTTIES in every country I've been to, including highly developed first world places.
OP talking about asian girls not being into ugly guys... haha. Take a peek into some of the hi-so social circles and your head will explode. POWER is what they gravitate to. Power does not equal symmetrical features or square, jaw, lol.
Looks (as in, facial appearance, height) are one fragile form of value. Looks alone will get you second-rate girls who want the validation of "getting a hot guy" and that's it.
More durable forms of value:
Social dominance.
Absolute charm.
Rock solid self-confidence.
Highly sexualised character.
"Alpha-ness": leading, escalating, handling tests, firm boundaries.
Dancing ability.
Powerful Physique (many different forms - can be wiry, athletic, thick, muscular, etc... just has to look like you're a "force of nature", not a fat or sick slob)
Highly well connected.
Intimidating, makes other guys react.
Life and soul of the party.
An "ugly" guy scoring high on a few of these will get what he wants.
Girls love POWERFUL guys, if you're ugly they will think you're "cute" or "look interesting" if you are also powerful in some dimension.
Count money as a another fragile one too, that will only get you second-rate girls chasing $$$ or lifestyle upgrades if you rely on it and nothing else. Although it's often correlated with forms of power, so it's a useful proxy.