I'm in the same boat as you OP, pretty much. eradicator is right. I just think we need to mentally accept that girls are fickle as hell and modern technology only magnifies this. I would of course like to see some more material about retaining interest in this day and age and how to make text/phone game work a bit better, but ultimately most of your numbers are probably going to flake.
The only surefire way to really prevent it is to make as huge an impression as you can, and during the day there are limited avenues for this since heavy screening and escalation would be socially inappropriate.
The only surefire way to really prevent it is to make as huge an impression as you can, and during the day there are limited avenues for this since heavy screening and escalation would be socially inappropriate.