Had another frustrating night with a Chinese girl:
I met her for coffee in Luohu a few weeks ago. We met up tonight. I invited her out to grab food with me and then chill in my apartment. (my apartment is within spitting distance of a billion places to eat) We eat food and go for a walk before setting off my apartment. I made sure the route we walked took us back to my apartment and told her to come up for a minute.
We sit on the couch and talk.
I thought I had it in the bag because during the walk I had some funny teasing going on and she was touching me frequently. on my arms and stuff.
I go for the kiss and she does the turn away and "we're just friends..."
I'm confused because she came to my place which is 45 minutes from where she lives. What in the motherfuck?
After the kiss attempt she starts texting furiously and I tell her I have to get ready for bed and kick her out.
I'm going to go to the bar and have a drink. Fuck this noise.
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I was talking with Jetlagged and he suggests that I frame my "hanging out" as more of a date. Unfortunately, in the USA if you say "date" the girls run for the hills, but it seems like chinese girls actually go on dates or something? Perhaps I'm missing something here. It was just so confusing.
Aside for spergish chinese girl trolls I've been having a fun time in china. I've made a small group of friends I see. Two Russia guys and an American guy. They all say they're quite impressed with how quickly I got around the city and made friends. They told me that their first month in the city was spent hanging in their apartments bored.
The girl who works the register at the coffeeshop in my neighborhood was teaching me some chinese today. She taught me "I live alone" and "my phone doesn't work." haha. Silly shit, but still language is language. I think she might be a solid language learning partner because I can just walk into the shop in the morning before work and talk to her.
I may have found a side hustle in China, so I'm pleased with the possibility of some extra kuai every month.
So I am happy about that stuff at least. Now to figure out how to bang these chinese girls.
I met her for coffee in Luohu a few weeks ago. We met up tonight. I invited her out to grab food with me and then chill in my apartment. (my apartment is within spitting distance of a billion places to eat) We eat food and go for a walk before setting off my apartment. I made sure the route we walked took us back to my apartment and told her to come up for a minute.
We sit on the couch and talk.
I thought I had it in the bag because during the walk I had some funny teasing going on and she was touching me frequently. on my arms and stuff.
I go for the kiss and she does the turn away and "we're just friends..."
I'm confused because she came to my place which is 45 minutes from where she lives. What in the motherfuck?
After the kiss attempt she starts texting furiously and I tell her I have to get ready for bed and kick her out.
I'm going to go to the bar and have a drink. Fuck this noise.
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I was talking with Jetlagged and he suggests that I frame my "hanging out" as more of a date. Unfortunately, in the USA if you say "date" the girls run for the hills, but it seems like chinese girls actually go on dates or something? Perhaps I'm missing something here. It was just so confusing.
Aside for spergish chinese girl trolls I've been having a fun time in china. I've made a small group of friends I see. Two Russia guys and an American guy. They all say they're quite impressed with how quickly I got around the city and made friends. They told me that their first month in the city was spent hanging in their apartments bored.
The girl who works the register at the coffeeshop in my neighborhood was teaching me some chinese today. She taught me "I live alone" and "my phone doesn't work." haha. Silly shit, but still language is language. I think she might be a solid language learning partner because I can just walk into the shop in the morning before work and talk to her.
I may have found a side hustle in China, so I'm pleased with the possibility of some extra kuai every month.
So I am happy about that stuff at least. Now to figure out how to bang these chinese girls.
I will be checking my PMs weekly, so you can catch me there. I will not be posting.