Utterly true.
The words "I don't want a relationship" should be said on every single date a man goes on, no matter his intentions with the girl. This is true irrespective of culture and of the type of a girl. Same applies to a sweet Russian or even Muslim girl, the script must be flipped and the lover track should be indubitable. Being on the provider track is not only needy, but it also adds a bunch of "boyfriend requirements", since you will likely not meet because you are not part of her social circle, and likely have many other problems, not being local, not fluently speaking the language, job, background, etc. etc. Providership rarely means you get the girl, usually you just lose her between dates as she pegs you against all these requirements, which you don't meet, regardless of SMV. Often a nice-guy chump could actually beat a top player in this regard. On the lover track, it's all about fucking you, you just need to be attractive, and the faster you fuck her the less time she has to think things through and likely discard you. After sex the oxytocin comes in, the script is flipped, she starts chasing you, her emotions get tangled up over time (unless she is a slut, in which case you should be pumping and dumping anyway), eventually all her requirements go out the window and her only goal is to get the man with "commitment issues" to commit. He should drag this out as long as possible, and if he does commit, the girl will devouted to him.
Noobs often get the idea that "playing it safe" will get them the girl. Not only does it delay sex, but it makes it 10x more likely that said sex will never happen, and most of the time you'll simply lose the girl after the first or second date and never see her again.
The words "I don't want a relationship" should be said on every single date a man goes on, no matter his intentions with the girl. This is true irrespective of culture and of the type of a girl. Same applies to a sweet Russian or even Muslim girl, the script must be flipped and the lover track should be indubitable. Being on the provider track is not only needy, but it also adds a bunch of "boyfriend requirements", since you will likely not meet because you are not part of her social circle, and likely have many other problems, not being local, not fluently speaking the language, job, background, etc. etc. Providership rarely means you get the girl, usually you just lose her between dates as she pegs you against all these requirements, which you don't meet, regardless of SMV. Often a nice-guy chump could actually beat a top player in this regard. On the lover track, it's all about fucking you, you just need to be attractive, and the faster you fuck her the less time she has to think things through and likely discard you. After sex the oxytocin comes in, the script is flipped, she starts chasing you, her emotions get tangled up over time (unless she is a slut, in which case you should be pumping and dumping anyway), eventually all her requirements go out the window and her only goal is to get the man with "commitment issues" to commit. He should drag this out as long as possible, and if he does commit, the girl will devouted to him.
Noobs often get the idea that "playing it safe" will get them the girl. Not only does it delay sex, but it makes it 10x more likely that said sex will never happen, and most of the time you'll simply lose the girl after the first or second date and never see her again.