I agree with the op because all of my serious LTR relationships have been ones where it started with sex on or close to the first date.
In my opinion there is no more reliable confirmation of interest than having sex. Also why waste time going for LTR with a girl you don't even know yet if you like having sex with her enough to keep her in your life like that. Having a serious LTR is a significant investment of your time and possibly money.
You have to calibrate to each person and situation but basically my strategy for any girl is just:
1) Try to have sex as soon as possible while getting to know her just like with any other attractive women you would meet otherwise.
2) If you like her after that, be authentic, keep spending time with her, and just let the LTR happen.
Women like to fuck just like men do and I don't think this is limited to american or slutty girls. If you're with her in a situation that's obviously leading to sex and you want to fuck her, why would you artificially back out? I really never understood what the purpose of the mythical before sex "relationship building period" really was.
In my opinion there is no more reliable confirmation of interest than having sex. Also why waste time going for LTR with a girl you don't even know yet if you like having sex with her enough to keep her in your life like that. Having a serious LTR is a significant investment of your time and possibly money.
You have to calibrate to each person and situation but basically my strategy for any girl is just:
1) Try to have sex as soon as possible while getting to know her just like with any other attractive women you would meet otherwise.
2) If you like her after that, be authentic, keep spending time with her, and just let the LTR happen.
Women like to fuck just like men do and I don't think this is limited to american or slutty girls. If you're with her in a situation that's obviously leading to sex and you want to fuck her, why would you artificially back out? I really never understood what the purpose of the mythical before sex "relationship building period" really was.