Quote: (06-27-2015 02:58 PM)Captainstabbin Wrote:
These broads are completely insane with comments like this:
Quote:Quote:Like he feels invalidated when you don't swallow.
but if the 80/20 meat is what she always gets, maybe she feels invalidated for spending the time considering price versus health.
To my earlier point about the difference between a partner and a wife:
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I mean, why should I feel like my husband is doing me a favor by going to the grocery store? It’s not my job, it’s a partnership.
From the same woman:
Quote:Quote:This is how women rationalize doing nothing for their husbands or the marriage. They build up small things - like picking out 80/20 meat - into something equal to working all day supporting the family, mowing the grass, trimming trees, fixing the car, household repairs, etc. - that's all the same as buying meat.
These small things mean a lot to women.
That "maybe she feels 'invalidated'" is the most hilarious garbage I've heard. I'm jealous I can't come up with such trash myself.
I've learned in my time that obsession over the "small things" to this extent is just clinical-grade anxiety that these women have no accountability over.
During my late childhood I had bad anxiety, and the most obvious way it would manifest itself was having my day ruined over something very minor that had happened. Everything that could be bad - ie myself spilling something, or losing a sports game, would ruin my day and I would dwell on it for hours. Eventually, I had to come to terms with it and develop myself out of these bad worrying habits.
Only, the "happy life, happy wife" mantra avoids real introspection like the plague.
The vast majority of my girlfriends, FWBs, etc had anxiety - not all, but many did. The ones that would we would see is a REPEATING PATTERN that I would have to talk them off a cliff / mercilessly deride
because we were, heavens forbid, 5 minutes late to the movies.
The constant nagging and belittlement is really projection of their inner anxiety into stress on the relationship. These entitled princesses are expecting their husbands to behave PERFECTLY to avoid any issue.
Yeah, I'll pass on that marriage thing.