Your case is nothing out of the ordinary "alpha fucks beta bux" and female hypergamy. A typical provider type wifing up a decently hot girl who uses his money to cheat on him and will definitely divorce rape him later.
If the guy is a decent enough fellow, I suggest you and your friend do something to let him know. Divorce rape and getting cheated on by someone you love are things I wouldnt wish on my worst enemy.
Back on the topic. This is something I have been thinking about a lot these last few weeks. Sadly this is where I think even redpill men are stuck. Seems like the only option viable these days is to be in a LTR and still game on the sides to keep your mind sharp and your options open. But this is more of like "build an escape hatch" resort rather than "fortify the house" resort. It doesnt directly strengthen the LTR itself, it just makes sure you wont get oneitis.
There's the age-old idea of fucking her very well, but then every player worth his salt knows that this is not sustainable. Old dick = boring dick unless you are really an artist in bed.
IMO the best way is to first find a girl worthy of a LTR. Even this is no guarantee since unless you keep her under lock and key she will be exposed to poisonous women/society and get hit on by thirsty man. Any girl can strays if they go on the wrong trip or run into the wrong guy when you aren't there. That is still less of a threat than her own feminine nature. My mentor once told me that "if you ever find a girl worthy of LTR, you must protect her against the world AND against HERSELF". Girls are retarded and sometimes do stupid shit out of the blue, and her hamster make her do things that are bad for you and her.
Setting the frame right right from the scratch would help establish the correct frame of the LTR. Then you need to wrinkle in all the stuffs like dread game, drama, and the occasional romance act.
There's deep conversion game but I frankly havent seen it works with a quality girl.
Frankly I dont know. You could be doing everything right and the LTR still crashes. LTR and marriage are so dangerous today because men have everything to lose and women have everything to gain. It used to be viable because cheating was universally condemned and a cheating wife might be a dead wife, now its considered a must-have life experience. Unless you can somehow make her believe that losing you = losing everything, its hard to keep her hypergamous nature in check.
So most guys with their heads screwed on will know that LTR and marriage are not a good choice, but what if we DO want them? Game gets old and not everyone wants to keep hitting the field forever.
If the guy is a decent enough fellow, I suggest you and your friend do something to let him know. Divorce rape and getting cheated on by someone you love are things I wouldnt wish on my worst enemy.
Back on the topic. This is something I have been thinking about a lot these last few weeks. Sadly this is where I think even redpill men are stuck. Seems like the only option viable these days is to be in a LTR and still game on the sides to keep your mind sharp and your options open. But this is more of like "build an escape hatch" resort rather than "fortify the house" resort. It doesnt directly strengthen the LTR itself, it just makes sure you wont get oneitis.
There's the age-old idea of fucking her very well, but then every player worth his salt knows that this is not sustainable. Old dick = boring dick unless you are really an artist in bed.
IMO the best way is to first find a girl worthy of a LTR. Even this is no guarantee since unless you keep her under lock and key she will be exposed to poisonous women/society and get hit on by thirsty man. Any girl can strays if they go on the wrong trip or run into the wrong guy when you aren't there. That is still less of a threat than her own feminine nature. My mentor once told me that "if you ever find a girl worthy of LTR, you must protect her against the world AND against HERSELF". Girls are retarded and sometimes do stupid shit out of the blue, and her hamster make her do things that are bad for you and her.
Setting the frame right right from the scratch would help establish the correct frame of the LTR. Then you need to wrinkle in all the stuffs like dread game, drama, and the occasional romance act.
There's deep conversion game but I frankly havent seen it works with a quality girl.
Frankly I dont know. You could be doing everything right and the LTR still crashes. LTR and marriage are so dangerous today because men have everything to lose and women have everything to gain. It used to be viable because cheating was universally condemned and a cheating wife might be a dead wife, now its considered a must-have life experience. Unless you can somehow make her believe that losing you = losing everything, its hard to keep her hypergamous nature in check.
So most guys with their heads screwed on will know that LTR and marriage are not a good choice, but what if we DO want them? Game gets old and not everyone wants to keep hitting the field forever.
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