Is this a valid, accurate reason as to why men always have to be the initiators?
06-09-2015, 03:41 AM
Yes. Be grateful for it, because 99% of us would not be approached if women were responsible for initiating. Think of everyone you've been to a party or club and seen the most attractive girls swarmed, but the not-so-good-looking ones neglected. It'd be the same if it were the other way around, but much worse.
If you're lucky enough to have the quality of genes that girls approach you (twice or three times a night out or something), you should commit to approaching anyway.
The most realistic thing you can expect is for girls to be receptive and make it easy to talk to them. But you must go up to them and start talking.
If you're lucky enough to have the quality of genes that girls approach you (twice or three times a night out or something), you should commit to approaching anyway.
The most realistic thing you can expect is for girls to be receptive and make it easy to talk to them. But you must go up to them and start talking.