It sometimes happens that guys you knew for a while start to act differently or weirdly. Or maybe you see things in them that you don't really like, and it starts to accumulate.
Sometimes guys you've known for a while start to take a different direction with their behavior or their lives. People grow apart. It's just the way life is, sometimes.
Just limit your time with that person. Trying to get inside someone else's head to figure out why they do things: this is usually futile.
Limit your time with assholes and douchebags. Don't hang around them. Don't try to reform them. They just waste a lot of your time.
Some words of wisdom from Jerry Heller, manager of Ruthless Records:
“He never liked me. So I never liked him. A long time ago I made a decision that made things a lot simpler for me: I wasn't going to like someone who didn't like me. If someone had a problem with me, I wouldn't argue with him or try to change his mind. If he demonstrated he didn't like me, I came to the conclusion that life was too short, so fuck him.
This included quite a few people I ran across in the music business, as well as my own brother and the whole nation of France. I wasn't going to turn into Sally Field ("You like me! You really like me!"), but I wasn't going to waste my time with assholes, either.” ― Jerry Heller, Ruthless: A Memoir
Sometimes guys you've known for a while start to take a different direction with their behavior or their lives. People grow apart. It's just the way life is, sometimes.
Just limit your time with that person. Trying to get inside someone else's head to figure out why they do things: this is usually futile.
Limit your time with assholes and douchebags. Don't hang around them. Don't try to reform them. They just waste a lot of your time.
Some words of wisdom from Jerry Heller, manager of Ruthless Records:
“He never liked me. So I never liked him. A long time ago I made a decision that made things a lot simpler for me: I wasn't going to like someone who didn't like me. If someone had a problem with me, I wouldn't argue with him or try to change his mind. If he demonstrated he didn't like me, I came to the conclusion that life was too short, so fuck him.
This included quite a few people I ran across in the music business, as well as my own brother and the whole nation of France. I wasn't going to turn into Sally Field ("You like me! You really like me!"), but I wasn't going to waste my time with assholes, either.” ― Jerry Heller, Ruthless: A Memoir