Yes, we can't just sweep under the rug the stark fact that there were children involved and call him a pussy. If this was a single woman with no kids, I would have fully agreed.
If someone threatened me with that, I'm not sure what I would do. It's easy to scream alpha and red pill but I don't blame the man for wanting to protect the kids. That's real.
Seems like he didn't have much choice; and his interpretation of repercussions to him based on modern law in the situation is pretty reasonable.
The other side of this is something I find even more real and disturbing for him as a man: he appears socially maladjusted. There was some serious shit going on and the man couldn't even "phone a friend." And not one friend or even family member either checked on him or saw an issue when they did. If he was socially stable, at least some of this situation could have been avoided.
So, if there is any advice to give this man for his own future, it would be to join the forum and build his social skills. He read the situation and the world wrong and paid for it. And, he's not the only one..
If someone threatened me with that, I'm not sure what I would do. It's easy to scream alpha and red pill but I don't blame the man for wanting to protect the kids. That's real.
Seems like he didn't have much choice; and his interpretation of repercussions to him based on modern law in the situation is pretty reasonable.
The other side of this is something I find even more real and disturbing for him as a man: he appears socially maladjusted. There was some serious shit going on and the man couldn't even "phone a friend." And not one friend or even family member either checked on him or saw an issue when they did. If he was socially stable, at least some of this situation could have been avoided.
So, if there is any advice to give this man for his own future, it would be to join the forum and build his social skills. He read the situation and the world wrong and paid for it. And, he's not the only one..