Myself and a very close friend of mine were having a bit of a tiff.
He'd been constantly disrespecting me and when I reacted physically he'd call me a psycho in front of our group. Basic passive aggressiveness
Gonna be a long read.
So, one day we're in the Library about a week before exams and he has my Laptop charger which I need as all my notes are on it.
Anyway, I message him to bring in my charger from his car when he arrives cause it's absolutely pissing rain, he agrees, no bother.
He comes in 5 minutes later and I ask for my charger, but he's forgotten it and left it in his car. So he throws me his keys and tells me to go get it from the back of his car, as his car is just outside the Library. Now, I'm wearing a pair of shorts and a hoody, not appropriate clothing for an Irish Spring so you can imagine me going out and stepping in puddles and arriving at his car in a slight rage. But I decide to get into his car and drive it to the further car park and basically swap where our cars are parked. Harmless prank basically. Throw him back his keys and I decide to tell him what I've done. I get back to studying.
Now, he comes along and asks if we're going out for a smoke, I say no, another says Yeah. So my friend starts rolling, then gets his tobacco and throws a load of it into my hair. Annoying but he's trying to provoke me in front of everyone, I decide not to react.
He comes back about a half hour later, gets a sweet he's been eating and spits it onto the page I'm working on. Too far. I then grab the sweet and throw it back into his face. He picks it back up and then attempts to shove it back into my face but I grab his arm and tell him to stop. He then tries harder but I grip his arm tighter and tell him that if he doesn't stop that I am going to stand up and sort this out. He reacts with his usual "Oh you over aggressive psycho" bullshit. I tell him that he's being a passive aggressive little bitch and everyone can see through his insecure little play in which he's trying to make me react in front of the group and if he doesn't quit, that we're taking this outside and settling it absolutely.
He tells me taking his car was too far and that he just forgot the charger and I would just throw him the keys too. I explain I wouldn't, that if I said that I would do something, then I would do it. Even if I forgot it, I would go back outside in the rain and get the fucking thing. Blah Blah blah, I eventually give the ultimatum, either outside or we're good.
He decides, then we go get food an hour later.
He'd been constantly disrespecting me and when I reacted physically he'd call me a psycho in front of our group. Basic passive aggressiveness
Gonna be a long read.
So, one day we're in the Library about a week before exams and he has my Laptop charger which I need as all my notes are on it.
Anyway, I message him to bring in my charger from his car when he arrives cause it's absolutely pissing rain, he agrees, no bother.
He comes in 5 minutes later and I ask for my charger, but he's forgotten it and left it in his car. So he throws me his keys and tells me to go get it from the back of his car, as his car is just outside the Library. Now, I'm wearing a pair of shorts and a hoody, not appropriate clothing for an Irish Spring so you can imagine me going out and stepping in puddles and arriving at his car in a slight rage. But I decide to get into his car and drive it to the further car park and basically swap where our cars are parked. Harmless prank basically. Throw him back his keys and I decide to tell him what I've done. I get back to studying.
Now, he comes along and asks if we're going out for a smoke, I say no, another says Yeah. So my friend starts rolling, then gets his tobacco and throws a load of it into my hair. Annoying but he's trying to provoke me in front of everyone, I decide not to react.
He comes back about a half hour later, gets a sweet he's been eating and spits it onto the page I'm working on. Too far. I then grab the sweet and throw it back into his face. He picks it back up and then attempts to shove it back into my face but I grab his arm and tell him to stop. He then tries harder but I grip his arm tighter and tell him that if he doesn't stop that I am going to stand up and sort this out. He reacts with his usual "Oh you over aggressive psycho" bullshit. I tell him that he's being a passive aggressive little bitch and everyone can see through his insecure little play in which he's trying to make me react in front of the group and if he doesn't quit, that we're taking this outside and settling it absolutely.
He tells me taking his car was too far and that he just forgot the charger and I would just throw him the keys too. I explain I wouldn't, that if I said that I would do something, then I would do it. Even if I forgot it, I would go back outside in the rain and get the fucking thing. Blah Blah blah, I eventually give the ultimatum, either outside or we're good.
He decides, then we go get food an hour later.