Great points, and I feel like there's going to be a natural division on opinions in regards to this issue.
Some men have a stronger paternal instinct than others. Hell, some men have zero paternal instinct.
On top of that, every situation is different.
I for one wouldn't dream of raising an oops baby unless the mother was a thoroughbred genetic specimen and a great woman with great motherhood written all over her.
You also have to think that your time and resources on this planet are finite.
If you misinvest on raising an oops baby with a woman of average genetics, you're diverting resources away from breeding truly superior stock.
That may sound heartless to some people but it's my honest, no BS feeling on the subject.
I do hear you though about wrapping it up.
It's a conundrum because sex with a condom feels like ...sex with a fucking condom.
And bitches lie to the moon about birth control.
By the way, if the woman claims she is taking birth control and still gets pregnant, then in my book all bets are off.
Because the implicit agreement is that pregnancy should NOT have occurred, and that she was the one ostensibly taking the measure to prevent it.
Good luck to the OP, I hope you make the decision that feels best for you.
Some men have a stronger paternal instinct than others. Hell, some men have zero paternal instinct.
On top of that, every situation is different.
I for one wouldn't dream of raising an oops baby unless the mother was a thoroughbred genetic specimen and a great woman with great motherhood written all over her.
You also have to think that your time and resources on this planet are finite.
If you misinvest on raising an oops baby with a woman of average genetics, you're diverting resources away from breeding truly superior stock.
That may sound heartless to some people but it's my honest, no BS feeling on the subject.
I do hear you though about wrapping it up.
It's a conundrum because sex with a condom feels like ...sex with a fucking condom.
And bitches lie to the moon about birth control.
By the way, if the woman claims she is taking birth control and still gets pregnant, then in my book all bets are off.
Because the implicit agreement is that pregnancy should NOT have occurred, and that she was the one ostensibly taking the measure to prevent it.
Good luck to the OP, I hope you make the decision that feels best for you.