For almost 10 years I've been working in an environment that involved almost exclusively one-on-one interactions with middle-aged and older folks. There were a few milfs here and there that I could've and should've slammed, but basically nothing in the way of younger chicks.
Now I'm in a completely different place with a pretty typical work environment where you can walk around and essentially go see whoever you want at any time. I can still be socially awkward around women I'm attracted to but am slowly getting better. I usually either keep my head on straight and do pretty damn well or totally lose it and come off like a complete beta loser. One problem I still have in that respect is that in the workplace it gets in my head that I'm gonna be seeing these chicks all the time, whereas at the grocery store for some reason it's much easier for me. I don't know what the best way to act around these women at work is, and I need to get a grip on that aspect so that I can start to consciously do and say the right stuff. There are 2 that I'd like to get something going with and bang outside of work.
One is a young community college student, a 7 with great body, not terribly bright and somewhat quiet and shy. I get the feeling she's only like that while she's at work due to her not being totally comfortable and worried about "not knowing what she's doing" as she put it to me once. Overall she seems like a pretty run-of-the-mill boring and immature 20ish girl. I facebook stalked her and I think she's the "country" type of chick and outgoing/adventurous with her friends. So far I've stopped by to talk with her a handful of times, not more than once or maybe twice a day, but I lost it and probably said the most stupid boring shit about work, her college classes, etc. I think she's still doable though because once in every 4 or 5 times that I walk past her I look directly at her, she puts her head up, we lock eyes and I hold it for a few seconds until it seems natural to look away again like nothing happened. Usually during this she'll do a little smirky smile or something. No idea how to smoothly proceed from here.
The second is real hot. 7.5ish and a smoking body. Rack looks tasty and legs are unreal. Mid-20s and acts very level-headed and professional. Not like a crazy bitch feminist type though. Seems mature, smiles a lot, and has a very chill vibe. Can't find her on social media unfortunately. Comes off as a "good girl," very quiet and shy at first but out of nowhere yesterday she got pretty talkative when I set up shop at a desk near her for a couple hours. I tried to be conversing with her and watching body language at the same time - she would spin her chair around to be at about a 45* angle to me with her legs crossed and making some hand gestures while talking. I was trying to see if she was touching her face and hair and stuff but couldn't handle it all at once as, like I said, her tits look top-notch and were stealing much of my attention. It definitely had the air of a positive interaction though.
I'm not prepared to try anything on either of them quite yet, and I'm also cautious of how I act at all times as this is a work situation. Neither of them give me any crazy/psycho worries but I suppose you just never know. Interested in what you guys suggest I do for the near future. With any luck I can make some steady progress and strike when the time is right.
Now I'm in a completely different place with a pretty typical work environment where you can walk around and essentially go see whoever you want at any time. I can still be socially awkward around women I'm attracted to but am slowly getting better. I usually either keep my head on straight and do pretty damn well or totally lose it and come off like a complete beta loser. One problem I still have in that respect is that in the workplace it gets in my head that I'm gonna be seeing these chicks all the time, whereas at the grocery store for some reason it's much easier for me. I don't know what the best way to act around these women at work is, and I need to get a grip on that aspect so that I can start to consciously do and say the right stuff. There are 2 that I'd like to get something going with and bang outside of work.
One is a young community college student, a 7 with great body, not terribly bright and somewhat quiet and shy. I get the feeling she's only like that while she's at work due to her not being totally comfortable and worried about "not knowing what she's doing" as she put it to me once. Overall she seems like a pretty run-of-the-mill boring and immature 20ish girl. I facebook stalked her and I think she's the "country" type of chick and outgoing/adventurous with her friends. So far I've stopped by to talk with her a handful of times, not more than once or maybe twice a day, but I lost it and probably said the most stupid boring shit about work, her college classes, etc. I think she's still doable though because once in every 4 or 5 times that I walk past her I look directly at her, she puts her head up, we lock eyes and I hold it for a few seconds until it seems natural to look away again like nothing happened. Usually during this she'll do a little smirky smile or something. No idea how to smoothly proceed from here.
The second is real hot. 7.5ish and a smoking body. Rack looks tasty and legs are unreal. Mid-20s and acts very level-headed and professional. Not like a crazy bitch feminist type though. Seems mature, smiles a lot, and has a very chill vibe. Can't find her on social media unfortunately. Comes off as a "good girl," very quiet and shy at first but out of nowhere yesterday she got pretty talkative when I set up shop at a desk near her for a couple hours. I tried to be conversing with her and watching body language at the same time - she would spin her chair around to be at about a 45* angle to me with her legs crossed and making some hand gestures while talking. I was trying to see if she was touching her face and hair and stuff but couldn't handle it all at once as, like I said, her tits look top-notch and were stealing much of my attention. It definitely had the air of a positive interaction though.
I'm not prepared to try anything on either of them quite yet, and I'm also cautious of how I act at all times as this is a work situation. Neither of them give me any crazy/psycho worries but I suppose you just never know. Interested in what you guys suggest I do for the near future. With any luck I can make some steady progress and strike when the time is right.