If I've learned anything from failures it's that if it gets to the point where you have to ask other people, "what should I do about this girl?" DROP IT. You can attempt to be friends with her but that's it.
The telling line is I work with her. That tells me that she's not an option of 'choice' she's an option of CONVENIENCE. I don't know you, but judging from what you say, even if you talked to this girl 2-3 times in a given week, that would account for 90% of interactions with girls. So, you're left saying, "If I don't get in a relationship with her, I have no one."
Broaden your horizons, talk to more girls.
Having said that, you're "holding hands" so maybe it's not so hopeless. The second thing I've learned from my failures is that there is no such thing as a perfect moment. You make the moments happen. There's a fine line between "breaking your comfort zone" and "feeling awkward", and if you can separate the two, you can make it happen.
The telling line is I work with her. That tells me that she's not an option of 'choice' she's an option of CONVENIENCE. I don't know you, but judging from what you say, even if you talked to this girl 2-3 times in a given week, that would account for 90% of interactions with girls. So, you're left saying, "If I don't get in a relationship with her, I have no one."
Broaden your horizons, talk to more girls.
Having said that, you're "holding hands" so maybe it's not so hopeless. The second thing I've learned from my failures is that there is no such thing as a perfect moment. You make the moments happen. There's a fine line between "breaking your comfort zone" and "feeling awkward", and if you can separate the two, you can make it happen.