Overthinking. I have been guilty of this myself all the time.
I don't want to give out advice here yet because I'm a super newbie myself, but I'll venture a guess here.
Shoot her a text tonight, something like this.
Hey XXX, it just so happens I'll be in your area tomorrow for the day on business (or for whatever reason but this classes it up). We should meet up and you can show me around your city/go out for a drink/whatever pretense you want to set up.
First off you'll screen her, second off you'll find out if she's even available, and third if she's interested. Do yourself a favor and consider spending the night if things workout in your favor, just be open to it. We all have done crazy shit for pussy. Leave at 5am is traffic is a concern, but if you're letting traffic cockblock your logistics, I don't know what to tell you bud. Life is tough.
I don't want to give out advice here yet because I'm a super newbie myself, but I'll venture a guess here.
Shoot her a text tonight, something like this.
Hey XXX, it just so happens I'll be in your area tomorrow for the day on business (or for whatever reason but this classes it up). We should meet up and you can show me around your city/go out for a drink/whatever pretense you want to set up.
First off you'll screen her, second off you'll find out if she's even available, and third if she's interested. Do yourself a favor and consider spending the night if things workout in your favor, just be open to it. We all have done crazy shit for pussy. Leave at 5am is traffic is a concern, but if you're letting traffic cockblock your logistics, I don't know what to tell you bud. Life is tough.