You already know what you need to do. Do you need permission to do what you already know? If so, permission granted. Being 'Alpha' means taking charge of your shit and doing the hard stuff you need to do without whining and seeking validation. You name the decision. Posting this question is essentially a way for you to separate yourself from the responsibility of making decisions for yourself.
Fuck you dude. That's what I think when you ask if it's ok for you to man up and stop being a bitch.
Ok, that's the tough love. I think you'll do what you want to do in the end. Maybe you need to overdose on this whole oneitis thing and put yourself into a dark emotional hole before you realize you could just be happy and be a man. Keep tying your happiness to this fantasy of this girl you're "obsessed" with and you'll end up where you already know you'll be: unhappy and alone. You're here because you know that.
Good luck man, I sincerely hope you figure this out and come out a better, happier man. Sometimes it just takes a while to let yourself be who you want.
Fuck you dude. That's what I think when you ask if it's ok for you to man up and stop being a bitch.
Ok, that's the tough love. I think you'll do what you want to do in the end. Maybe you need to overdose on this whole oneitis thing and put yourself into a dark emotional hole before you realize you could just be happy and be a man. Keep tying your happiness to this fantasy of this girl you're "obsessed" with and you'll end up where you already know you'll be: unhappy and alone. You're here because you know that.
Good luck man, I sincerely hope you figure this out and come out a better, happier man. Sometimes it just takes a while to let yourself be who you want.
Per Ardua Ad Astra | "I have come here to chew bubblegum and kick ass. And I'm all out of bubblegum"
Cobra and I did some awesome podcasts with awesome fellow members.