When you try to meet chicks (esp. in another country), do you usually do cold approaches?
Or do some of you pull of the "approach one person (maybe a guy, who wont be jealous) just to get into a social circle with multiple women"?
It seems that for someone who doesnt rock at approaching, but is okay at it (I come from a public speaking anxiety and approach anxiety background but have worked on it a ton over the years to where Im at least better at it than most guys here in Germany).......this would be a much more rewarding way to do approaches.
One approach would equal access to multiple women. In the right social circles a couple of hot ones.
I assume Im not the first person to think of this (lol), but has anyone of you tested this technique? Is it better for people who are only "okay" at approaching?
Or do some of you pull of the "approach one person (maybe a guy, who wont be jealous) just to get into a social circle with multiple women"?
It seems that for someone who doesnt rock at approaching, but is okay at it (I come from a public speaking anxiety and approach anxiety background but have worked on it a ton over the years to where Im at least better at it than most guys here in Germany).......this would be a much more rewarding way to do approaches.
One approach would equal access to multiple women. In the right social circles a couple of hot ones.
I assume Im not the first person to think of this (lol), but has anyone of you tested this technique? Is it better for people who are only "okay" at approaching?