I hear you, and I do feel that I'm entitled to the top shelf. Out at night I don't have much trouble going straight to the hottest girls at the bar and opening.
I need to step my daytime style game up. At night I always get myself pretty fresh, put some product in my hair. During the day I get lazy and let my athletic gear show too much - nike frees, even bball shorts once in a while. My radius of movement is pretty small on the average day so it's really easy for me to be lazy like this.
I think I'm gonna try to go a week straight making an effort to look sharp every day, hopefully it helps my confidence in approaching.
I need to step my daytime style game up. At night I always get myself pretty fresh, put some product in my hair. During the day I get lazy and let my athletic gear show too much - nike frees, even bball shorts once in a while. My radius of movement is pretty small on the average day so it's really easy for me to be lazy like this.
I think I'm gonna try to go a week straight making an effort to look sharp every day, hopefully it helps my confidence in approaching.