I've checked your first post here and several seasoned members gave you the best advice you can get started with, that's why I'm confused on why you are still hooked to that girl who from what you say doesn't even acknowledge your existence yet again here you are sending her an inbox message on her software troubleshooting dilemma.
Saying you don't have a oneitis for a girl you had a crush on and according to what you said you treated her like a snowflake doesn't add up,yet again here you are wanting advice on how to get her after several years.
Forget about her, go out and start approaching, and get the lifestyle that you want. If going out approaching, getting a bang eventually and getting your life back in shape doesn't give you a confidence boost, nothing really will.
Saying you don't have a oneitis for a girl you had a crush on and according to what you said you treated her like a snowflake doesn't add up,yet again here you are wanting advice on how to get her after several years.
Forget about her, go out and start approaching, and get the lifestyle that you want. If going out approaching, getting a bang eventually and getting your life back in shape doesn't give you a confidence boost, nothing really will.