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Bigtiming - liquiball - 09-17-2008
So I came across this thread on another forum (for the DC crew, it was LNS) ... and thought it was interesting. So I'd like to hear some other takes on this ... both suggestions for bigtiming ... as well as strategies to put it back in his face, because I'm sure it's something we'll all encounter at some point.
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I am wondering if people would be kind enough to give me some advice on the art that is big timing. Next week I am meeting the BF of a girl I used to date, who I still like a great deal. Bottom line, I want to put a real solid big time down on this guy just to let him know who is boss and where he stands.
I am familiar with all the fundamentals of a great big time: a straight out snub, calling the guy by the wrong name, reffering to him as chief, giving him a not-so-subtle wink whenever we talk about his GF, etc.. However, I feel like this has all been done. I want to really throw something special down on this guy, and to loosely quote Frank Riccard, maybe there is some cool form of bigtiming I don't even know about. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Bigtiming - Roosh - 09-17-2008
I've never heard of this term before. Sounds like petty jealously revenge. He's trying to snub a guy who used to date a girl he used to date?
Bigtiming - Peoloom - 09-19-2008
he'll probably achieve the opposite of what he wants by acting so childish. It'll be pretty obvious that he's still in love with this girl when he acts like an asshole to her current boyfriend.
The best way for this guy to communicate indifference to the girl would be to actually meet someone else and become indifferent to the girl.
Bigtiming - broken - 09-21-2008
Quote: (09-17-2008 11:35 AM)liquiball Wrote:
So I came across this thread on another forum (for the DC crew, it was LNS) ... and thought it was interesting. So I'd like to hear some other takes on this ... both suggestions for bigtiming ... as well as strategies to put it back in his face, because I'm sure it's something we'll all encounter at some point.
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I am wondering if people would be kind enough to give me some advice on the art that is big timing. Next week I am meeting the BF of a girl I used to date, who I still like a great deal. Bottom line, I want to put a real solid big time down on this guy just to let him know who is boss and where he stands.
I am familiar with all the fundamentals of a great big time: a straight out snub, calling the guy by the wrong name, reffering to him as chief, giving him a not-so-subtle wink whenever we talk about his GF, etc.. However, I feel like this has all been done. I want to really throw something special down on this guy, and to loosely quote Frank Riccard, maybe there is some cool form of bigtiming I don't even know about. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Lotta problems here
- he's got one-itis
- he wants to AMOG when he should be trying to BF destroy
- he needs to make the new BF an ally of his, rather than an enemy. (like Vince Vaughn did in that break up movie with Jennifer Aniston)
- And pulling girls higher in his ex's social circle is more likely to get the ex back in the fold, than making the new BF look like a dork.
- unless there are children involved, he should be looking @ the other half a million women in DC, or 1,000 if he's into the LNS polo and pearls chicks.
Bigtiming - Trotter - 09-21-2008
My first thought is that any woman observing this kind of behaviour would think even less of you than she already may. I don't believe most women look favourably upon machismo displays. It sounds like you're hung up on this girl and can't bear the fact that she's with someone else. The best thing really, if you want to show her you're the bigger man, is to simply to man up and move on.
This Australian chick and I broke things off and she was convinced it's what she wanted. Two months later she sees this New Zealand babe hanging off my arm and no sooner than she realizes I've forgotten about her did she call me the same day. She was impressed, without actually having said it, and kept asking me weird questions like if I ever still think about us and crap. I played it cool and next thing you know she's over my place with her legs spead out on my bed.
As a general rule of thumb machismo is a bad thing. Charisma and class is what really gets a woman's attention and allows her to recognize whom the better man is. Just be friendly with the guy (doesn't mean you have to be bff) and let him know that it doesn't bother you in the least bit that he's banging your left overs. Then simply put him out of your mind and live your life.
Bigtiming - Chick - 09-21-2008
This girl, would WANT you to act jealous. If she didn't, she wouldn't be letting the ex meet her BF.
The best way to get her back for putting you in that situation is to be friends with him, and bring along a hot date that had physical attributes that she's lacking. Basically an improved version of her, even if it's just a friend. Also, for the ex to act like he didnt know the new guy is her BF. "Oh! you're dating her! Congrats man. I haven't heard from her in a while. All the best. - change topic - "
Women are all about mind games. And men continue to fall for it.
Bigtiming - WeedVagRapBball - 10-01-2008
Dude, you can't be serious..... No chick in the world is worth cockfighting about. Pretty weak man. The only advice I'd give you is to find a girl hotter than this chick you're meeting and don't even show up to this shindig. Get your life together and keep it moving son.